by Karen Melang
My days are full of phone calls. The
phone rings before I can pull My key out and
open my office door. The answering machine
blinks
and tells me
helpfully that I have eight new messages.
I work for a Habitat for Humanity
affiliate, and one caller wants an
application for a Habitat house. Another is
offering to sell me a lot to build on.
Someone else wants to be reminded of what
service they bought at our last fund–raising
auction.
The calls come all day long. Where will
we be working on our next construction day?
How many people will need to be fed at the
worksite Saturday? Do I know someone who can speak Spanish? Can someone who
has to perform court ordered community
service work at Habitat? I get all kinds of
calls.
Sometimes we think of call as a
churchy word. Have you ever served on a
call committee? We think of pastors and
deaconesses, Associates in Ministry, and
diaconal ministers as those who have been
especially called.
The people who work in the congregations,
agencies, and institutions of our church are
specially called to their tasks, but they
are not the only ones who have a call. One of the bedrock insights of the
Lutheran Reformation (which we commemorate
later this month) is that everyone is
called, not only those who work in churches.
St. Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 12
that though the church is all one body, not
everyone is an eye. And wouldn’t it be awful
if we were all eyes? There would be no hearing or smelling. God has arranged
for different body parts: for toes, elbows,
retinas, and lymph nodes, all with different
jobs to do. We are called to diverse work,
but nonetheless, we are all called.
Hearing voices
Lutherans use a particular word for what
God calls us to: vocation. That
word’s root is the Latin word vocare,
to call. Call is an action word,
requiring someone doing the calling and
someone being called. When we talk about
vocation, we mean that the Someone doing the calling is God and
that we are the ones being called to
specific work in our world.
Not very many of us would say
that we
hear the voice of God calling
us to
something in particular.
Instead
we hear a request from
someone
at the other end of the phone line. We read the pleading email.
We listen to the people around the table,
and we hear them say, "I need your help."
We find out about disasters and suffering
halfway around the world, and we think, "I
could do something about that." Or our
imaginations are captured by some problem in search of a solution, and we say to
ourselves, "Wow, I would really love to work
on that."
This is exactly the way God calls
us — through the voices of other people.
Sometimes someone who needs our skills calls
us. Perhaps there is a general call for
help, as during last year’s hurricane season.
Maybe someone notices our capabilities and
points out that we could do something well
that needs doing. We hear the voice of
another person, but God is calling us
through that person.
God calls people to all kinds of
vocations, to all kinds of work. God
certainly calls some people to be bishops
and pastors, church council members, and
Sunday school teachers. But God also calls
people to design Web pages, plant seeds, process loans, formulate vaccines, change
diapers, fill orders, keep accounts, repair
copiers, fly planes, serve clients, make
meals, build bridges, and do a million other
jobs.
How’s the pay?
Jobs and occupations might be made up of
tasks, but vocations are never only
that. Vocation is God calling you to use
your abilities for the good of someone else.
A vocation always means you, someone else,
and God.
Not all vocations are jobs, nor do they
all result in paychecks. Volunteer service
is a vocation for some of us. The men and
women who build houses faithfully every
Tuesday and Saturday in my Habitat affiliate
have vocations. All they get for their labor
is an annual appreciation breakfast, and, of
course, the great satisfaction that comes with working to alleviate
substandard housing for our neighbors in
need.
If our vocation does result in a
paycheck, the size of that paycheck has
nothing to do with the worth of the
vocation, or with our own worth. Most of us
need paychecks, but our worth is not tied to their size.
I remember moving from a job that paid more
to one that paid less and thinking, "Now I’m
worth a lot less." But all of us know those
who perform tasks that pay very little. The
work of the nursing-home aide or the
child-care provider is worth many times
their paychecks to us, our families, and
society.
Most of us have several vocations at the
same time: mother, purchasing agent,
daughter, voter, worship assistant,
supervisor. Some of our vocations can be
distilled and described on a resumé:
"Trained 14 staffers on new software.
Planned and implemented office move." Some
vocations really don’t go on a resumé:
"Stayed up all night with feverish baby.
Cried with sister–in–law over her diagnosis
of cancer and prayed with her."
Some of our vocations we choose by
assessing our best gifts. If I’m trying to
decide between being a teacher or a truck
driver I can ask myself whether being with
kids tickles my insides or if the thrill of
the open road is even better. When I look at my gifts, where can I
serve best? There is contentment all around
when what I love to do and do well is what
others need. We all sense that in some holy
way we have opened the gift of each other
and found just what we needed.
New Assignments
There’s no shame in saying "no" to some
calls. Any group who asked me to be their
treasurer would be turned down fast, and
they’d be thankful that they were. If the
idea of being stuck with a needle makes you
faint, you are very likely not called to be
a blood donor. Sometimes we are asked to do
something that’s not right for us. Don’t
take that job. It’s someone else’s.
Naturally enough, our vocations change
over time. We learn new skills, and we are
nurtured by our experiences. If we are very
blessed, we gain some wisdom about both the
world and ourselves. Perhaps our career path
changes abruptly. We decide to buy the
restaurant. An unexpected job loss gives us
the clear signal that it’s time to go back
to school.
When my husband’s vocation took us to a
new town, I thought I might start looking
for work there, though I could have commuted
to the job I had. My friend, who turned out
to be God’s voice, brought me the classified
ads from the newspaper in the new town, with
a circle around the Habitat job I have now.
"This is your job," were her exact words.
"You can wear jeans every day."
She knew my style of dressing, and I’m
sure she knew, too, that working on the
problem of substandard housing in Jesus’
name was right up my alley. My friend was
right. At least for now, this job does have
my name on it. Our other vocations change,
too. We may be called to care for aging
parents or a spouse with Alzheimer’s. We may finally get up the
nerve to read the lessons in church or go on
an international mission trip. Many of us — if
we are listening — will be called to some new task and relationship that we didn’t
think we could do before it came on the
scene. We never know what God will call us
to next. Every day holds the kernel of change and adventure.
Helping in God’s work
In the very beginning, God put humankind,
the creatures made in God’s image, in
charge. God made them responsible for taking
care of every living thing that moves on the
earth (Genesis 1:26–28). God also gave the
newly minted human beings a garden to cultivate and care for
(2:15).
Totally pleased with the creation of the
universe, God shared with humankind the
capability to bask in achievement and to
know the deep contentment of having done good work.
God chose not to be the
only worker in the universe. Work was far too much fun to keep to God’s self.
People, too, would be called to work, to
plant a field and then to harvest, to knead and bake bread and feed their
families. People would be entrusted with
planning projects of all kinds and
implementing them in order to celebrate
joyously that the results were very good.
Creation was very good when God rested,
but everything was not done once and for
all. Gardens needed tending, land and
animals needed care. Even in the brand–new world, there was work to do.
Now, eons removed from that first
perfection, many things need to be done for
many people. God is calling us to meet the
needs of our neighbors, whether our
neighbors are our family members, our
customers, our patients, our co–workers, our
supervisors, our clients, or people all over
the world. Serving our neighbors is what God is calling us to do. It is why
we are here.
When my daughter Anne was about six years
old, she came to me one morning before
school. "Do you know why I am me? Do you
know why we are here? And I don’t mean in
Hackensack," she said, naming the tiny town
where we lived. "Do you know what I mean?"
Yes, I knew what she meant.
We don’t find out why we are here all at
once, I told her. We find out a little at a
time. I am here now, I told her, for you and
Marty and Dad. As you grow and listen to God’s voice, you will find out why you
are here and who you are called to be and
whom you are called to help. She seemed
satisfied.
When Anne was in college, I discouraged
her from getting a degree in music. "You
can’t earn a living with that," said a
suddenly practical mom (with a theology
degree!). So she majored in psychology for a
while, which doesn’t offer such great opportunities for earning a
living either.
Soon she came to me and said, "Mom, I
have to major in music. It’s what God wants
me to do." I was silenced. Anne now owns a
thriving piano studio and is music director at her church.
Notice your aptitudes and abilities and
nurture them. Listen to the voices of those
around you and hear the needs. Pay attention
to your experiences and the events and problems of the world. With God’s
grace and help, you can do good work.
Karen Melang is the executive
director of Fremont Area Habitat for
Humanity, Fremont, Neb. She is a member of
the Lutheran Deaconess Conference, class of
’71.
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